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"I look down at the people and I think about how everybody's got problems. Maybe not a secret government agency on their ass, but, you know... problems. And if I sit up here long enough, I start to feel like I'm just one of those people... a regular girl. ." +++ DA

Thursday, March 25, 2004

What Do You Do?

what do you do when your trainor admits to being intimidated by you?

Nothing, I suppose.

My immediate reaction was, it's not my problem you can't communicate well. I was only trying to elarn as much as I can from my training.

True enough, it really isn't my problem. However, had I said that to his face it would surely be unprofessional. But then again, it's his fault that he takes everything personally... like when a "classmate" suggested that he mention where we are at so that she could follow PowerPoint presentation. She had a point because the class was so disorganized and the trainor could not explain the subject well. At the same time, maybe my "classmate" could have adjusted her learning style and followed the class on her own. But then, isn't it the trainor's job to make sure that the class gets the message across?

As a person who trains others (on a different subject), I would definitely say it's the trainor's problem since it's his job. But then again, no one is forcing anybody to stay in our class, are they? I only wish the company would review this trainor's performance.

...and guess what I did?

I told him what I always tell everyone I know: Not everything is about you. The reason why we frown or ask question is because we're confused. We don't ask them to taunt anyone. If the trainor thinks we're doing that, I believe that there's a lot of psych majors who can help him out.

Sunday, March 21, 2004

50 First Dates


Whoever thought Adam Sandler could be so charming? Certainly not me.

Admittedly, I've watched several of his movies and he never failed to make his viewers laugh at his antics. Of course some of them are slapsticks like the things he did out of anger when he played Happy Gilmore or the way Winona Rider's friend got beaten up when she pretended she was being mugged.

Then there's Drew Barrymore whom I have admired when I was a kid and I saw firestarter (I wanted to be a firestarter!). It never fails to amaze me how she went through all the things she did and came out with her own production company and being one of the sought after actresses in this day and age (particularly after playing the heroine in Ever After).

These two actors have done at least one film together although I didn't get to watch it.

This time around, I was in for a surprise. I had thought I'd be laughing my heart out as I watched this film. I never thought that this was one of those very few films these days that would prove me wrong.

For those who haven't watched 50 First Dates, please be mindful that there will be spoilers if you read on...

I never quite got the importance on how the film started. Of course the numerous women talked about Henry (Adam Sandler) and how this guy made their visit to Hawaii memorable. At that point, I thought I'd see Sandler as a jerk who loves one-night stands and fooling women. The film tried to establish that and it seemed that they did. Except for the part that the character build up wasn't able to live up to my expectation. There should have been an epiphany when Henry met Lucy (Drew Barrymore). But the film failed in emphasizing this. Instead, Henry immediately turned from a one-night stand kind of guy into a guy who likes Lucy. In any case, the failure to establish Henry's womanizing days wasn't all that bad although it did make the opening scene quite irrelevant.

The parking lot scene where both Lucy and Henry caught each other dancing after flirting with each other the whole morning, was a good prelude to what was to come. Since there didn't seem to be anything wrong with Lucy, I expected some accident to occur as she drove home.

There wasn't.

In fact, it wasn't until the next day when Lucy gave Henry the cold shoulder did I get any idea on how the writer wanted the story to go. As was the case, Lucy called onto the chef-cum-Lucy's-bodyguard to get the pervert Henry out of the place. It was then that I got to know all about Lucy's day and how her family loves her.

Some questions arose, though. How many copies of the Sunday paper did Lucy's dad had the printer make. If her short-term memory was to be permanently impaired, then how much of the Sunday paper would last during Lucy's lifetime? Then, how does her family ever get to work? If they do the same thing over and over again, I don't suppose her dad and brother could afford to go out of the house to catch fish and make a living. And by God, if I were the one watching Sixth Sense over and over again, I'd probably puke at the sight of it.

As the story went along, you'd wonder why (if Lucy's brother and dad were that dedicated to her) they didn't bother to have her car's registration renewed. And why her mom's best friend would allow current newspapers to be stacked just outside her restaurant. And the age old question, why didn't Lucy's dad and brother or even her doctor ever try to do what Henry eventually did - make a video for her to remember some important events on a daily basis so she could watch it in the morning when she wakes up.

In any case, the way Henry admitted his feelings for Lucy and the way Lucy asked was really romantic . It wasn't the roses nor the place although the beach is considered as a romantic place. But Lucy was shooting a video. Then she asked - it was a serious question asked in an off-hand manner - the way some people tend to ask important questions as they try to hide their embarrassment. It was perfect! And kuddos to Drew and Adam for doing a great job in capturing the sentiments of the characters in that scene.

I have to admit that I cried. Right from the moment that the doctor told Henry that Henry only thinks Lucy remembers him because Henry wants to think of it that way. After all, in watching such movies, we always want the Happily-ever-after, right? It was here that the movie finally established that under no condition would Lucy improve. It was here where the hope that I still had (even after the doctor said it's permanent) of Lucy getting cured was crushed. It was final. Even though I expected a cure or even henry being a cure, it was establish that the injury was permanent. no cures. I was crushed!

From then on, things went into expected turns - Lucy breaking up with Henry so Henry could live a fuller life. Henry helping Lucy erase her memory of him as she went about recording and printing her journal. Henry leaving her place after one last first kiss. Henry deciding to leave Hawaii and go after his research dream since there wasn't anything for him… Lucy's dad and brother saying goodbye to Henry.

But then, the music from the CD given by Lucy's dad told Henry something that I, likewise never saw coming. When Henry decided that Lucy's dad was telling him indirectly that Lucy can remember him, he went back and rushed to the Callahan Institute. When he finally came face-to-face with Lucy adn asked her about him, I thought Lucy would say she remembers him. After a few suspense-filled moments, I was again put down by Lucy's response. She does not know Henry. Henry's response was realistic enough, "This sucks!" But Lucy took him to her studio and showed him her work. It was the first time in my life that I was ever grateful about all these talks on the sub-conscious.

I don't personally adhere to believing and banking too much on the sub-conscious nor do I know much about the medical field to know if this can happen to someone with a damaged temporal lobe, but I do know that it was one time in my life that I was hailing the sub-conscious.

In the end, they lived happily ever after. Lucy's face, when she saw her kid, was priceless.

I was captured by the story, not because it was any unique plot (i don't think that after Sophocles and Eurepedes and several Greek and classic writers a unique plot can ever exist). I was taken from my seat and guided towards quick unexpected twists and turns and brought back down to end up wishing I could find a guy like Henry.

I have to two things to say to the cast and crew of 50 First Dates

"You did a great job!"
"Thank you for surprising me! Very few films, no matter how good, can do that to me these days."

Some questions still remain, though. How many hours would Lucy have to spend in front of the tv when she reaches 65 just to update herself on her life?

Another thing I noticed, the person after whom the sickness was made published his research findings after four years because he, himself, was suffering from damage in his temporal lobe. Ergo, I'd conclude that any short term memory could still have been converted to long term memory. It may take a while, but it could happen. if the good doctor was able to finish his study, it could happen.

Thursday, March 18, 2004

Work and DA

Working again is taking its toll. by the end of the day, i'm too tired to really do anything much. I guess the good thing about all this is i get to wake up early again. Also, there's the satisfaction that at least I'm earning something while I'm waiting for my own version of milk-and-honey.

On another note, I didn't know there's a Dark Angel DVD available here! And I do mean the Complete Season 1 DVD! arrrrghhhh!!!! It took my colleague to recognize my fanaticism when it comes to Dark Angel stuff for me to realize that there are in fact DVDs here! arrrghhhh! now i won't be able to get them due to some actor named Bong Revilla! Grrrrr!

hint: Greenhills

Friday, March 12, 2004

Quotable Quotes from the workplace

Non-Disclaimer: These are unedited version of the responses. I swear, I wanted to go ahead and shoot myself! It was like Ms. Congeniality only worse...

Comment on: "You are what you read"
Answer: I read a lot of books!

Comment on: "Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks"
Answer: If you love a person, you should tell them. If you're angry at your mom, you should tell her.

Question: Are men like dogs? Do they mark their territories?
Answer: We (men) are dogs. As homosapiens, we are on top of the animals in the planet. We like having our own room in our house.

Question: If you are to become the President of the United States, give a sample of your speech.
Answer: I, (name), the President of the Republic of the united States...

Question: What is the best color in the world and why?
Answer: Green because it's the color of plants. It's ecology.

Question: What makes you the best creature in the planet?
Answer: Most probably because God made me as... (tada!!!!) MYSELF. I'm beautiful, intelligent. most especially, I ahve a kind heart.

Question: Don't you find it weird when people say that your life is in the hands of the doctors, but they call what they do practice?
Answer: (she didn't even understand the question at first and the trainor had to explain that it's aclled a medical practice) Yes, I find it weird because some doctors experiment on their patients.

Comment on: "Children never lie"
Answer: Children are very innocent. They are young and small. So they never lie.

Question: What is the standard of beauty. Do you agree with it or not?
Answer: beautiful is not in the physical beauty. I'm in favor of being beautiful for the innerside of the person.

Saturday, March 06, 2004

Look what i got from the bowl containing our Lord's words for me today...

Belive me, if you trust and do not falter... you will receive all that you prayed for, provided you have faith.

--- Matthew 21:21

makes me feel better and gives me a bit of patience.

Wednesday, March 03, 2004

almost a heart attack

It's hot. No doubt about it. I think it's 27 degrees Celcius. The worst part for Alba is we have to drive around the city for errands... in a car... without airson. I can't say that the day went any better for me, either.

The horror of horrors is when she had to go pick up an affidavit duly notarized at her uncle's office. Since we went circling around the block for about 3 or 4 times just to find a parking lot without any success, she decided to just park in front of a "reserved" sign, dash into the building and get the documents in a flash so we could finally get out of the Makati City area.

Since she parked in front of a bank, I didn't mind. After all, she went into the building, right?! Lo and behold! about 2 minutes after she left, a horrendous blue Mazda decided he/she wants to park in that "reserved" parking spot. What convinced me I wanted to strangle someone was the security guard got the "reserved" sign and took it out so that car could park. What the-?! Since Alba's car was aimed right at that spot, there was no choice but for me to drive the car out of the spot. The horrendous-looking-shade-of-blue Mazda went on a honking spree while I sweated out trying to figure out how to get out of the spot without hitting the back bumper of the Honda CRV in front of us.

Honk! First the clutch. Honk! Then the gear shift. Honk! I had to go on 1st gear. Honk! I immediately turned the steering wheel towards my left seeing that there were no cars coming up behind me except for this annoying one. Honk! Then, I looked at the front right side of the car and immediately concluded that no matter how much I turn the wheel, I should first back up in order not to hit the CRV. Honk! So I had to adjust my seat, look at the back (in case I hit the good-for-nothing honking horrendous blue Mazda). Honk! After seeing that there was enough space for me to back up, I pushed the clutch, reversed the gear, let go of the handbreaks and ever so slowly with my heart racing to my death, I pressed on the gas and I backed up just enough for me to have space to maneouver Bembol. Honk! Then hit the clutch and the breaks and go neutral. Honk!

Honk! Then, I had to look forward, check my side mirrors for incoming traffic. By that time, all motorists seem to have gotten the news that I was driving along that area so they had filled up the one-way road. So i had to let go of the breaks, go to first gear turn the steering wheel to the left, and step on gas as i tried to park the car beside the CRV instead of behind it - with the hazard lights blinking. Honk!

I was cursing the driver of the honking Mazda, the security guard of the financial institution and praying to God that no MMDA officer shows his face along the driver's side windows and tell me, "This is a strictly no-double parking zone, ma'm. Can I get your license please?" Wha- What license?!!!! I DO NOT HAVE A FREAKIN' LICENSE!!!

I was sweating my a** off as I await the officer who shall indict me for my crime under the ehat of the Manila sun with no air conditioner in the car...

until, at last, I saw alba running towards the car. Halleluia!